A Guide to Life

Sometimes I pick up books with titles spouting wisdom, like “everything a girl needs to know in her 20s” or “how to run a modern household.” Some of the information is always new, and some of it I know. I just find it interesting to read.

I suppose part of the reason why is to gain perspective into what others might want, to use as a character (possibly) or to use the information in a story. Of course, that would mean restricting it to the real world, but all sorts of items can be adapted to other locations.

It occurs to me that I read Scott Westerfeld’s Uglies trilogy and the follow-up Extras and not one of his female protagonists ever talked about her shoes. Okay, so there are only two protagonists through those four books, but don’t you think shoes would come up at some point? Especially in the Prettytime, when everything was about the aesthetic value and their brains had been altered to think that way (about aesthetics, not about forgetting shoes).

Since most of the guides I’ve read are about women’s lives, I think next time I hit the library I’ll look for a male counterpart. Is there a male counterpart to those guides on how to live as a girl? That would definitely make interesting reading, even though most men don’t dote on shoes like women.

I bet they’d be missing the section on manicures and pedicures…

Other than that, I am sure there should be something to apply to men. It’s not like men get a free ride on stuff women somehow don’t learn growing up.  [And to be fair, it’s not like our mothers didn’t try to teach us to check the labels on clothing for care like dry cleaning or  machine wash warm-tumble dry low. I was listening. Very few clothes are cute enough to have to dry clean all the time.]

The answers are out there. Sometimes you just have to find the right question. And don’t spout 42 at me. If you don’t know what the question was, you can’t necessarily say it’s the answer to everything.

8 thoughts on “A Guide to Life

  1. Oh, but it IS the answer to Life, the Universe, and Everything! (Just kidding…we just watched the movie two nights ago.) 🙂

  2. Yes, but I don’t think anybody’s going to go for publishing a book with nothing but ’42’ written on the pages… Well, maybe a couple people might.

  3. Of course the key is trying to figure out what the question needs to be.

  4. We could easily make it ‘what’s 21 times 2?’ but I don’t think that has relevance in most lives.

  5. Have you ever seen a guy when they are first kicked out on their own? What makes you think they prepare for anything? Did the fridge containing only a bottle of ketchup and an abandoned spoon not give away their lack of self-help books? Did you not notice the cabinets stocked with kraft macaroni and cheese, ramen noodles, and maybe a can of soup?

    Paper plates are more likely to be had than real ones. Eating over the sink is prefered. I’ll leave you to guess how they do their laundry. >_>

  6. I have an older brother who never went grocery shopping until after he moved out of our house!

  7. I guess I wonder if guys read those things, though. There has to be a market who would buy such a book before it would be published.

    So, guys who need tips about clothing and preparing food, would you buy such a book?

  8. Sure I would. One of the things that needs to be kept in mind is that with this economy being the way it is you are going to have many men put into positions that they do not have the skills.

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